Saturday, July 29, 2017

Last Breath

It is with a heavy heart that I write this post to let you all know that my dear mother passed away this morning at 6:40. Our prayers were heard in that it was a peaceful passing; there was no gurgling or gasping for air, her heart and her breathing just gradually slowed to a stop. She had her 3 children, beloved husband, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law and oldest grandson by her side as she took her last breath. Afterwards, her siblings and other family members and in-laws (and grandchildren) all surrounded with her love in her home. A close friend and clergyman from our church came over as soon as he heard the news and left our family with a sweet prayer as we all crammed into her bedroom by her bedside.

While I know that she is freed from her pain and suffering, and I know that she is having a beautiful reunion right now with her parents and other loved ones, we are all left broken hearted. This cruel disease took her from us way before her time. Her departure from us leaves a huge hole that can never be filled.

Thank you all for your prayers (I believe they did make a difference) and all of the thoughts and words of comforts. Thank you to those who came to visit with us this week and give my mom love before she left. Thank you for the dinners and the goodies left on the porch. We are blessed to have so many wonderful people in our lives to help us through our grief.

I will post an update as soon as we confirm funeral services (which will likely be done on Monday). I can say that we are aiming for the 11th or 12th of August, due to the fact that my cousin is getting married (in another state) next weekend and we don't want to take anything away from her special day. I will post an update as soon as we know so that friends and family members from out of town can make arrangements to be here to honor my mom.

8 comments:

  1. Cassandra I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. I know this is a very difficult time for you. You and your family are in my prayers. If there is anything I can do please let me know.
    I prayed for comfort to you and your family today. May the Lord be with you and surround you with His amazing love and grace.
    Hugs. Sheila

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  3. I am sending my love you you and your family.

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  4. I am so sorry to hear that your mother has passed away. My mom is also going thru the phases of dementia. Even though I have little free time myself, I would do this again because I love my Mom dearly. I will pray for you during this difficult time. Hugs!

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  5. We are so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Please know that our prayers are with you and your family. Love, Art and Rita

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  6. My heart told me this post would be here. My beautiful friend...May God hold you in this time. 18 years ago today my own mother took her last breath. Much love to you in the road ahead. I hope to see you very soon.

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  7. You have described a beautiful scene full of love. That love will carry you through the next few hard days and weeks.

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  8. I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing all the journey with us; much to learn. Peace to you and your family.

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